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"Silence is the perfectest herald of joy" - William Shakespeare

July 25, 2008 Jacquie Munro

I remember going to one of my first doula visits (with the woman who would eventually give up her law practice and become a doula) and talking with the couple about all the things we had to discuss before labour. My client's husband later confided to her that he was alarmed by how much I talked during the visit. "Oh!" I said. "He hasn't seen me at a birth. I'm so quiet. My eyes and hands speak, but not my voice." He was so relieved. I went on to attend all three of their children's joyful births.

The reason I talk so much at our prenatal visits, is that there is so much to cover. My own children are adults, and I have been discussing birth with them all their lives. But, I STILL haven't covered it all with them! Can you imagine trying to filter all the information to fit into two visits (and many phone calls) with clients? It really can't be done.

The best I can do is help my clients get a sense of the underlying philosophy of birth, to encourage them to trust their bodies, to help them to remain undisturbed while going through labour. I still talk and talk before labour begins, but I also listen and listen. My voice goes down to a whisper once labour is upon us, and it slows down, just as the lights go down....because we have to be silent to hear the lessons that the coming baby has to share.

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